Adult men who experienced his mother being beat by his father on a regular basis and verbal abuse will display abuse themselves in adult relationships, or they sabotage the relationships with spouses, daughters and sons. The men grow up resenting the women in their lives, because their mother never had the courage to leave the abusive father. Mentally, they force the partner out of the house. As an adult, they do not display affection, love or emotions because they DO NOT KNOW how. The greatest self-inflicted emotion, is choosing not to heal or identify the problem, they push a spouse away, warranting a divorce.
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