Everyday in the press we see read and hear of some form of abuse. Recently, a 12 year old boy is charged with two counts of rape. He raped a 5 year old girl. I have such mixed emotions regarding this. The reality I would love to know, 1. was he abused himself 2. How did he learn such behavior 3.Are they related. Now we have a young boy in jail and a baby that is dramatized. These are the after effects of abuse after the action.